I’m a 35-year-old woman from Algeria. Before everything changed, I lived with my mother and worked in a good job. Life felt stable, and I was proud of what I had achieved. But where I come from, a woman approaching 30 without being married is often seen as a source of shame. When I was introduced to a man through my sister, I saw an opportunity to build the family I had always dreamed of.
He seemed to want the same things. He told me he had always hoped to marry someone from our home country and spoke of starting a new chapter. On our second meeting, he mentioned a failed marriage with a British woman, which he blamed on cultural differences. By the third, he shared that he had a child, what he didn’t tell me was that his child was autistic and displayed violent behaviour.
I had visited my brother in London before, so when he invited me to join him in the UK in the next year, I agreed. He promised we would apply for a spousal visa once I arrived. But once I was there, everything changed. He denied our marriage to the Home Office, withdrew all support, and eventually threw me out. I was completely alone.
Over time, the abuse worsened. I was emotionally, physically, sexually, and financially abused. He kept me locked inside his house, without money, food, or even access to basic services like healthcare. I was forbidden from learning English or using public transport. I became a full-time carer for his child without any support or say in the matter. I was terrorised, insulted, and constantly afraid, he even once told me he would pay someone to kill me.
I was completely isolated, with no rights, no freedom, and no voice. The turning point came when a neighbour referred me to KMEWO. That referral was the beginning of a lifeline.
KMEWO listened to me. They understood me, not just my words, but my pain, my fear, and my isolation. They supported me emotionally and practically, and when I tried to reach out to a solicitor myself and was asked to pay thousands of pounds I didn’t have, KMEWO stepped in. With their help, my situation was identified as a case of modern slavery, and I was granted legal aid.
I now live in safety and receive financial support. I no longer feel invisible.
Support Provided and Outcomes
After contacting KMEWO, my immediate safety and wellbeing became the priority. A full risk assessment and safety plan were put in place. I was referred to a specialist immigration solicitor who began supporting my case under legal aid. KMEWO also helped me apply for safe housing and financial assistance as a recognised victim of modern slavery.
They referred me to a family solicitor, which led to me obtaining a Non-Molestation Order to protect me from further harm. I also received a support letter for the Home Office to help keep me near my family.
For my emotional wellbeing, I was referred to Arabic-language counselling, which has made a huge difference in my mental health. I joined ESOL classes to improve my English, and I began attending self-care groups and mentoring sessions. These experiences helped rebuild my confidence and gave me a new sense of community. I’ve even been invited to share my story at KMEWO events, helping others see that change is possible.
A New Chapter
I now have legal status in the UK and live in safety. I’ve started volunteering, which has given me a renewed sense of purpose and helped me regain my independence. I’m building new skills, forming positive relationships, and giving back to the community that supported me when I had no one.
My journey has been long and painful, but with the right support, I’ve transformed from a victim into a survivor, and now, into someone who helps others find their own voice and freedom.